A Furry Friend Brings Unexpected Joy After a Loss

A Furry Friend Brings Unexpected Joy After a Loss

In May, I met with my Gilchrist grief counselor, Hilary Harrington, after the loss of my stepfather. I had been his caretaker for three years, so we were quite close. Hilary and I discussed plans that might help with my feelings of loneliness. We talked about finding a church or possibly volunteering. I mentioned that I had also thought of getting a cat, as I hadn’t had one for the past three years since I came to take care of Dad.

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Then, out of the blue, Hilary learned from a Gilchrist nurse, Amy Wonder, that a family unexpectedly needed to find a new home for their cat. Hilary sent me photos of the cat and asked if I would be interested in taking her. It didn’t take long to make up my mind. The nurse saw the family that afternoon and brought the cat, Millie, to me that evening.

It’s wonderful how having a pet companion helps soothe loneliness. Millie has a soft purr, almost like the coo of a dove. She likes to check on me, especially when I go into the kitchen. Millie reminded me of another cat I had years ago—Hendrix. They were both beautiful, fluffy, long-haired cats—white with a tinge of light orange. Hendrix was larger, about 15 pounds, compared to Millie, who is eight pounds, but I’m sure they’re the same breed. It’s interesting how God gives you a sign that something is meant to be.

A friend asked me if Millie was a rescue cat, and I said she was. I got to thinking about that a little while later. The term ‘rescue cat’ certainly is an appropriate one. You see, I rescued her, but she also rescued me.

This story was written and contributed by Ronald White.

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